Waba wifuza kubana n’umukunzi wawe akaramata? Dore umuti

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Ubundi amagambo meza ni kimwe mu bintu by’ubaka urukundo rw’abantu rugakomera, niba ukunda umuntu ugomba gukoresha uburyo bwose bushoboka kugira ngo yishime, kandi ndakwizeza ko iyo umukunzi wawe yishimye na we wumva ufite ubwuzu budasanzwe muri wowe, niyo mpavu natwe twakuzaniye amwe mu Magambo aryohereye ushobora kubwira umukunzi wawe, na we akumva ari wowe Imana yamuremeye nta wundi bityo mukibanira akaramata.

dore umuti wo kurambana n'umukunzi wawe
dore umuti wo kurambana n’umukunzi wawe
  1. Jya uhora umubwira ko umukunda

Kwibutsa buri munsi ko umukunzi wawe umukunda bizatuma ukomeza kumwubakamo icyizere yari agufitiye kikiyongera, ndetse bizamwongerera ibyiyumviro yakugiriraga.

Gusa hari ikintu kimwe ugomba kumenya, ntabwo ari ukubera ko umubwira ko umukunda, ahubwo ni igisobanuro kiryo jambo wamubwiye, Niba umubwira ko umukunda, hanyuma ntubimwereke, nta gaciro iryo jambo azajya ariha.

Bwira umukunzi wawe ko umukunda buri gitondo, hanyuma ujye uhora una mwereka ko umwishimira.

  1. Mutake Ubwiza bwe

Nkuko urubuga urukundo Rwanda rubisobanura , Kuri wowe kugira umukunzi mu buzima bwawe, Ndetse mukanarushinga biba bisobanura ko wamubonyemo ubwiza. None se niba wamubonyemo ubwiza, kuki udashobora kubimubwira uburyo ari mwiza? Bimubwire buri munsi kandi unabimusobanurire, bizatuma na we ahorana ibyishimo buri munsi,Ubundi ugiye umubwira ubwiza bwe buri munsi, icyo gihe uzaba umwibye urufunguzo rw’umutima we.

  1. Mubwire ko asobanura isi kuri wowe

Ibi ntabwo ari Sinema, Niba koko asobanura byose kuri wowe, gerageza ubimubwire. Nta mpamvu yo guhisha ibyiyumviro byawe, kumubwira ko asobanura isi kuri wowe yewe byaba na ngombwa ukamubwira ko iyo muri kumwe uba wibereye ku wundi mu bumbe wowe na we, ariko bitewe n’uburyo umukunda.

  1. Musezeranye ko utazigera umubabaza na rimwe

Gusezeranya umukunzi wawe ko utazigera umubabaza nta gushidikanya bizatuma na we yumva ko ntacyo yakwima agifite, kandi koko niba umukunda , ntushobora no kumubabaza, Nuguma kujya umubwira aya magambo azumva ko ntaho yakagombye kuba mutari kumwe. Amagambo nk’aya amutera guhora agufitiye Urukundo rw’inshi.

  1. Mubwire ko uzamubera Umunyakuri

Mu yandi magambo, n’umubwira gutya azumva ko ushaka ko umubera umukunzi nyawe w’iteka ryose. Na none kumubwira gutya, bizatuma muri we akugiriramo icyizere gihanitse, kandi niba akwizeye ntuzigire icyo wikanga, na we azaba umunyakuri kuri wowe mu buryo utakekaga.

  1. Mubwire ko ari igice kinini cy’ingenzi mu buzima bwawe

Numubwira ko ari igice kinini cy’ingenzi ku buzima bwawe, Ndagusezeranya ko uzaba umubwiye byinshi mu ijambo rimwe, uzaba umubwiye ko umukunda kandi ko mufitanye imbere heza, ko ari uw’agaciro kuri wowe, ko asobanura ikintu kinini ku buzima bwawe.Ntababeshye iri jambo ni ingirakamaro mu rukundo mu buryo utatekareza.

7. Mubwire ibyiza bye afite

Musobanurire ibyiza bye, Mubwire ibyiza agukorera azahita y’ishima niba ateka neza, bimusobanurire, niba agira urusaku, bimusobanurire, niba afite inseko nziza, yimusobanurire, kandi byose ukabisobanura mu buryo bwiza kandi uvugishije ukuri. Kuba umunyarukundo ubwira umukunzi wawe amagambo aryohereye yuzuye urukundo, ntabwo bisaba guca mu nzira zitandukanye, ibi ni ibintu byagufasha gutuma ubona n’umukunzi wawe akaramata.

Mukeshimana Schadrack

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