Amasomo 10 y’ubuzima wagakwiye kumenya mbere yo kuzuza imyaka 30

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Hari amasomo menshi umuntu asanga yagakwiye kuba yarize mu gihe yari akiri umwana muto kugira ngo azamufashe mubyo agenda ahura nabyo igihe yakuze, muri ayo masomo akeneye harimo ubuhanga hakabamo n’isomo ry’ubuzima muri rusange kuko hariho abantu bagufatariho urugero bitewe nibyo wize.

Abantu bashobora guhinduka kugeza ku myuka wa nyuma bazahumeka
Abantu bashobora guhinduka kugeza ku mwuka wa nyuma bazahumeka



Uko umuntu agenda ava mu bwana yerekaza muza bukuru niko agenda abona uburyo isi itoroshye na gato, hakabaho n’igihe bamwe bavuga bati iyomba narabashije kwiga iri somo nkiri umwana, mba  mbashije kwikemurira ibibazo ngenda mpura nabyo.

Niba ufite munsi y’imyaka 30, aya ni amasomo wagakwiye kumenya kuko azagufasha mu myaka iri imbere.

1.Amafaranga ntago ashobora gukemura ibibazo bya nyabyo ufite

Ifaranga n’igikoresho gikoreshwa mu kugura ibyo ushaka, gusa si igisubizo cy’ibibazo byawe.

Hari abantu babayeho mu buzima buciriritse gusa bahorana ibyishimo n’umunezero mu buzima bwabo, hariho n’umubare mwinshi w’abantu babaho batuje cyane kubera ubuzima bubabaje babamo.

Amafaranga yagura Urugo rwiza, Imodoka ihenze, Inkweto z’agatangaza, n’agace gato k’umutekano gusa ntiyabasha kuguha umunezero n’ibyishimo ushaka, ntiyabasha kubaka umubano wangiritse hagati yawe n’inshuti cyangwa imiryango, ibyo yakugezaho byose niby’akanya gato bigahita bishira.

2.Tangira urugendo rwawe wenyine

Iyo umuntu akiri umwana akenshi akunda kugendera mu nzira z’abakuru(Ibikorwa bye n’ibitekerezo bye akumva bigomba guhura neza neza nk’ibyo yakuze abona) gusa uko iminsi igenda iza ibyo byose bikuvamo ugasigara uhagaze ku giti cyawe.

Nibyiza ko wagakwiye kwiha inshingano zawe nshyashya, ugafata umwanzuro k’ubuzima bwawe, ugakora imishinga y’ubuzima bwawe, ukagerageza gukora buri kimwe, iteka ugahora hejuru cyangwa mubimbere, ugashaka inshuti nyazo kandi byose ukabikorera icyarimwe.

Ukwiye kujya wicara ukareba intego zawe aho zigeze, Ntuzemere ko ubuzima bukunaniza, Kandi ujye ukora imishinga y’ahazaza hawe.

3.Ntushobora gushimisha buri muntu

Umuhanga Bill Cosby yaravuze ati “Ntago nzi ibanga ryo gutsinda, gusa ibanga ryo gutsindwa ni ukugerageza gushimisha buri muntu wese.”

Mu buzima bwa buri munsi ntago dukeneye ko abantu bose bemera ibintu byacu, kuko abantu bakunda kubahwa, Gukundwa, no guhabwa agaciro niyo kamere ibarimo kandi ntago Wabasha guhaza ibyifuzo byabo. Iteka ugomba kubanza kwiyemeza ibyo ugiye gukora, Ugasaba icyubahiro ndetse ugahagarara ku gaciro kawe.

4.Ubuzima bwawe n’ikintu gihenze cyane

Ubuzima bwacu ni ubukungu bufite agaciro gahambaye, iteka jya ubwishimira, Ubwiteho, ndetse unaburinde icyabuhungabanya.

Tugomba gufata neza ubuzima bwacu mu gihe tukiriho, inama ugirwa ni ukwita ku buzima bwawe guhera none cyangwa se ukemera kuzicuza mu minsi iri imbere.

5.Ntago buri gihe ubona icyo ushaka

“Ubuzima ni ikintu kibaho mu gihe uhugiye mu gukora indi mishinga” ayo ni amagambo y’umuhanga John Lennon.

Nta mpamvu yo kwibaza ku mishinga cyangwa se k’uburyo ukora, kuko rimwe na rimwe ibintu ntago bigenda nkuko ubishaka.

Iteka tuba dufite ibyifuzo binyuranye, tugapanga ibikorwa byinshi by’ahazaza ndetse bimwe bikagerwaho, gusa rimwe na rimwe inzozi zacu ziratsindwa, ndetse hakabaho igihe duhindura ibitekerezo tugeze hagati mu bikorwa by’imishinga yacu.

Tugomba gushaka imikoro ya nyayo ndetse rimwe na rimwe tukagerageza gukora ibintu bike mbere yo gushaka imikoro ya nyayo.



6.Ntago ibintu byose ari wowe bireba

Ntago uri mu ndiba y’isi, Biragoye kubona isi uri wenyine ku giti cyawe mu gihe ukitaye ku bintu biri kuba ku buzima bwacu. Ese ngombwa gukora iki uyu munsi? Ese ibyo ndi bukore bimariye iki akazi kanjye n’ubuzima bwanjye? Ese nkeneye iki? Ni ngombwa kwitondera ibintu biba ku buzima bwacu kandi ukanirinda buri kintu gishobora kwangiza abandi bantu n’ubuzima bwawe.

 7.Ntukagire igisebo kubera kutamenya

Nta muntu numwe wavumbura ibintu byose kimwe nkuko ntan’umuntu ufite ibisubizo byose. Ntukagira igisebo cyo kuvuga ngo “Ntabyo nzi.”

Gushaka kuba umunyakuri ntago bikugira umunyakuri wa nyawe, mu buzima ntago umuntu abaho azi ibintu byose, akenshi twiga isomo iyo hari ikintu runaka cyatubayeho, kumenya uko uzitwara igihe wahuye n’ikibazo nibyo bizakugira umuntu wa nyawe

8.Urukundo ruruta ibyiyumviro, Ni amahitamo

Kwerekana Ibyishimo n’ibyiyumvo by’urukundo ntago biramba. Gusa ntibivuze ko nta rukundo ruramba rubaho? Urukundo ntago ari ibyiyumviro, ni amahitamo ukora buri munsi. Tugomba kwiga kwihanganira imibabaro, Kubabarira, Kwerekana itandukaniro, kubaha, gufasha no kugira ubumuntu.

9.Kuba icyitegererezo n’ibintu byiza cyane

Duhora duhangayitse kubera twabuze inzira nyayo yo kwerekezamo ibintu byacu, iteka ibintu bitubaho bigaragara nkaho ari binini, ari n’ibyagaciro gusa ugomba kubikora cyangwa ugapfa. Intambara duhoramo, Kubura akazi, Ibintu dushaka ariko tukabibura biragoye kubibamo ariko kubivuga biroroshye.

10.Ntugafate ikintu cyose nkaho nta gaciro gifite.

Ntago tugomba kwigira ba ntibindeba ngo twerekane ko nta kintu dufite haba ku butunzi bwawe, umuryango, inshuti, akazi, amafaranga cyangwa se ugaterekeza ko ibintu ugomba kubigira ejo hazaza.

Iyo tukiri abana tuba twibwira ko ababyeyi bacu bazatuba hafi iteka ryose gusa siko bigenda, uhora wibwira ko uzafata igihe ukajya kureba inshuti zawe za kera cyangwa se ukamara igihe kinini uri kumwe n’inshuti nshashya gusa ibyo byose ntago bibaho, ugira amafaranga yo gukoresha cyangwa se ugacyeka ko uzaba uyafite mu kwezi gutaha gusa ntago uyabona nkuko wabishakaga, Nta kintu na kimwe mu buzima cyabayeho kubera ejo hazaza, kabone naho waba ugikunda.

Aya ni amasomo y’ingenzi wakwiga mu buzima bwawe, gusa bizaba iby’agaciro numenya ko Ubuzima buhindagurika, Ukamenya kwishimira ibyo ufite kuko bizaguhesha kubigumana.



1 COMMENT

  1. Izi nama ni nziza cyane iyo abantu bose bazikoreshaga nk’indorerwamo (lunettes) zabo abantu babaho mu mudendezo n’iterambera

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