Ubukwe ni ikirori cy’ingenzi cyane mu buzima bw’umuntu kuko aricyo gikorwa kibasha kuba rimwe gusa mu buzima bw’umuntu kidashobora kuba kenshi ariko hari igihe ababishaka bahura n’ Imbogamizi zo gushaka gushyingirwa zikomeye kugirango babashe kubukora.

Imbogamizi zo gushaka gushyingirwa ushingiye kuri ibi bintu 10

Ubusanzwe ubukwe bukorwa ku mpamvu zitandukanye gusa nubwo ari bifatwa nk’ibya ingenzi hari igihe usanga byabaye ikosa ku buryo wabona impamvu ubukwe butakabaye ngombwa ukaba wanabwihorera.



Izi ni imbogamizi 10 abantu bakunze guhura nazo.

  1. Niba utaritegura neza ukibereye mu nzozi.

Imbogamizi zo gushaka gushyingirwa ushingiye kuri ibi bintu 10.

Ubukwe ni ikintu gishimishije cyane, cyiza kandi cyakabaye cyongera umubano w’abagikoze kandi kigahindura ubuzima bwawe bukaba bwiza kurusha,ariko mu gihe utiteguye ntabwo wakabujije uwo mwakundanaga amahwemo ngo areke ubanze ugera igihe wumva witeguye. Kuko niba uri umukobwa ukaba wirirwa ugendana mu marete yawe amafoto y’ikanzu nziza uzambara, ukaba wirirwa utekereza ku bazaguherekeza kandi rimwe na rimwe nta na rimwe urakundana mu buzima bwawe ikiruta ni uko nakugira inama yo kwihangana kuko umunsi wawe wo gushyingirwa uhari igihe uzaba warashatse umukunzi kandi wumva witeguye

2. Niba wumva utazabona impano.

Wedding gifts

Imbogamizi zo gushaka gushyingirwa zikomeye nuko inshuro nyinshi abaherekeje abageni mu makwe menshi baba biteguye kwakira impano nyinshi zagenewe abakoze ubukwe n’ubwo impano atarizo ziba zigamijwe mu gukora ubukwe ariko wibuke ko uba watakaje ibintu byinshi wakabaye uguramo ibikoresho wazakoresha mu gihe mwamaze gushing umuryago

3. Niba ukunda kuba wenyine.



Benshi dutinya kuba tenyine kandi bikadutera ubwoba cyane kuko umunsi umwe uzagera mu myaka runaka ubone ko wenyine atari ngombwa ubone ugukwirye nugwamo mugashimana muzashakana,kuko ibuka ko hari abantu benshi bakomeye babonye ko gushyingirwa ari ikintu cya ngombwa barabikora.

4. Kubura amahitamo.

Unexpected turn

Iyi ni imwe mu mpamvu abantu bamwe bashyingirwa bataritegura kubera ko baba babuze uwo bahitamo hagati ya benshi baba barabonye bakagira ibyifuzo byo kubana rimwe ugasanga nabo bahisemo barabahakaniye.niba rwose ukunda umuntu we ugasanga ntabwo akwiyumvamo na gato aho kugirango yirirwe agutesha wabyihorera.

5. Niba urungano rwawe rwarashyingiwe.

Chatting women ignoring upset friend on sofa

Iyo utabashije kugendana n’ibyo urungano rugenda rugeraho nk’igihe bose bashyingiwe akaba ari wowe wenyine usigaye utarashyingirwa witakariza ikizere ugatangira kwiheba. Gusa singombwa kwiheba kuko ntabwo wagendera gusa kubyo abandi bakora nawe watera imbere ibyo bagezeho nawe ukabigeraho,ukabona umukunzi ukubereye

6. Niba uwo mwahoze mukundana yariboneye undi.

Bitter bridesmaid next to romantic bride and groom



Ntabwo wakumva ari amakuru meza kukubwira ko uwo umwe mwahoze mukundana yiboneye undi kandi wowe ukiri wenyine utarabona uwo mukomezanya,ariko ibi ntabwo bikwiye gutuma wiheba kuko ni inkweto yabonye iyayo,nawe rero igihe cyo kubona uwawe kiba kiri hafi.

7. Gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Mu itorero ryawe baragusaba gutegereza ngo igihe cyo gukora ubukwe bwemewe,biragusaba kwihutira gukora ubukwe hakiri kare ngo ubashe gutera akabariro  kuko ubu ni uburyo buzatuma umukunzi wawe abasha kukwiyumvamo.

8. Abana

Pregnant woman cutting her wedding cake

Abantu benshi bashyingirwa kubera ko batwite, abandi kubera ko gusa bishakira abana bagapfa gushyingirwa n’abo batiyumvamo, imbogamizi zo gushaka gushyingirwa zishingiye ku makosa yose aterwa no kumva ko udashobora kubyara utashyigiwe, kuko ushobora no kubyarana n’undi muntu mutagombye gushyingirwa. Ni byiza cyane ahubwo ko wafata n’umwana utagira ababyeyi ukaba wamufata ukamugira uwawe.

9. Amafaranga .



Nibyo koko amafaranga ashobora kukorohereza ubuzima ariko yanabukomeza iyo wayashatsemo ku muntu udakunda,wibuke niba ushyingiwe n’umuntu byemewe n’amategeko muvanga umutungo bizatuma ubona ko mutanganya ubushobozi bitume utamwiyumvamo neza,ntabwo amafaranga yaruta urukundo nyarwo mu byukuri.

10. Ababyeyi bawe bakubwira nabi.

Akenshi iyo ababyeyi benda kwisazira uzasanga bakubaza impamvu utabyara bakiriho ngo bibnere umwuzukuru,iki gitutu cyabo kizagutesha umutwe cyane. Mbese wowe urumva wahita ushyingirwa?ntabwo igitutu cy’ababyeyi  aricyo cyonyine cyatuma ushinga umuryango.



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