Ubusanzwe tuzi ko igitsinagore aho kiva kikagera kitajya gipfa kugaragaza amarangamutima yacyo mu byerekeranye n’urukundo cyane cyane iyo umuhungu ataravuga ijambo nyamukuru, ariko umukobwa nagukorera ibi bintu uzahite wibwiriza!

Umukobwa nagukorera ibi bintu utaramubwira ko umukunda uzahite wibwiriza!

Nyamara n’ubwo bimeze bityo hari imyitwrire ushobora gusangana umukobwa ugahita umenya nyirizina ikimuri ku mutima. Umukobwa nagukorera ibi bintu, nubona rero akwitwaraho muri ubu buryo bukurikira ntuzirirwe ushidikanya ku kibimutera. Azaba agukunda ariko yarabuze aho abihera abikubwira.

  • Iyo muhuye arakubwira ngo warabuze
    N’iyo mwaba ,mumaze iminsi muvugana cyangwa muhura rimwe na rimwe, usanga akubwira ko wabuze. Mu byukuri icyo we aba yumva cyamunyura si uko kuvugana gusa cyangwa se uko muhura, ahubwo aba yumva ko mwagirana umwanya uhagije muri kumwe, akibonera amahirwe yo kwitabwaho nawe.
  • Ahora ahangayikiye kumenya uko umerewe
    Umukobwa wagukunze ariko ntugire icyo umutangariza, agahora agerageza kukwiyereka buri uko muhuye cyangwa buri uko muri kumwe akabona utabishyizemo imbaraga ukamureka we araguhamagara akakubwira ngo kuki watuje habaye iki? Mu byukuri rero aba yumva wamuganiriza buri gihe kandi ukamwitaho.
  • Kukubwira ko bagutwaye/Ufite indi nshuti
    Umukobwa wagukunze agapfira imbere burya, iyo umubwiye ku by’urukundo arakubwira ngo batazamwikubitira kuko akwemeza ko ufite umukunzi kandi ko utamubura kabone n’iyo wamubwirako ntawe ufite. Aha aba ashaka kukumvishako ku bw’imiterere yawe n’igikundiro ufite bitatuma ubaho nta nshuti ufite kandi ko atari we wenyine ubibona atyo, agahora aguha icyizere cy’urukundo mu buzima bwawe.
  • Akubaza utubazo tujyanye n’urukundo buri gihe
    Aha usanga umukobwa wagukunze akabura ijambo rya nyuma rya NDAGUKUNDA, usanga iyo muganira haba kuri telefone, muri kumwe, SMS, Whatsap,…. aba akuganiriza ku tuntu dutandukanye tw’urukundo, rimwe na rimwe mwabona nk’ubukwe, ati: “harabura iki ngo nawe utwereke ibirori koko?” iyo umubwiye ko nta nshuti ugira ati” nuyibura uzambwire ngo ngushakire”. Aba yifuza ko wamubwira uti ese wowe wanyemerera?
  • Kumenya amateka yawe
    Umukobwa wagukunze muri ubu buryo akenshi iyo muganira akubaza iby’ubuzima bwawe wabayemo kuva ukiri muto, akumva mbese ashishikajwe no kumenya byinshi kuri wowe.

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