Mu rukundo nubona ibi bimenyetso uzahite umenya ko umukunzi wawe yakurambiwe ndetse atakigukeneye

Burya urukundo rusaba ko abakundana bombi bagira urhare mu kuruteza imbere ndetse no kwirinda ibyarusenya. Hari ibimenyetso bizakwereka ko umukunzi wawe yakurambiwe ndetse atakifuza guteza imbere urukundo rwanyu.

Ikizakubwira ko umuntu mumukundana yatangiye kukurambirwa mu rukundo ni uko azatangira kugabanya urwego mwakoranagaho ibintu runaka nko gusohokana, kuguhamagara buri gitondo na buri mugoroba nk’uko muba mwari musanzwe mubikora.


Azatangira kutagira impano nanke akugenera kandi yahoraga akora uko ashoboye kose ngo agushimishe.naba yatangiye kukurambirwa uzite kuri ibi bimenyetso ngiye kukubwira.

1. Ntazajya agaragaza amarangamutima na make kubyo umubwira.

Kuri iyi ngingo ntabwo azita na gato ku bikorwa byawe kuko we ibyiyumviro yakugiragaho bizaba bisa nk’ibyapfuye muri we, ntabwo azaba akigutekerezaho kuko no kugirango wongere kumwigarurira ntabwo byakorohera na gato.

2. Azajya ashaka kukubwira nabi buri gihe.

Iki cyo ni kibi cyane kurenza iki cya mbere kuko azatangira kujya yinubira buri gikorwa cyose ukoze ashake no kukubwira nabi cyane, we azashimishwa n’uko aho kugirango mube muri kumwe yaba ari wenyine iki gihe we azaba yiteguye kwakira undi uwo ariwe wese wamugukiza kuko mu mutwe we aba yaragiye kera.

3. Arakara byoroshye cyane.

Iki ni ikimenyetso kiza gikurikira icya kabiri kuko iyo utiyumvamo umuntu iyo muhuye kurakara biba byoroshye cyane. Ahangaha ho ikintu cyose umukoreye acyitaho kandi agamije kureba aho yaguhera akunenga, we azaba ashaka ikintu cyose cyatuma akwipakururamo ngo arebe ko mwashwana

4. Azatangira guhindura uburyo yakoragamo ibintu bye.

Ibi uzabibwirwa nuko azatangira kugabanya gacye gacye ibyo yagukoreraga,iki ni ikimenyetso washingiraho wemeza ko yakurambiwe mu rukundo,ntabwo azashaka ko hari ikintu na gito mukomeza mukorana, azashaka uko yarangiza umubano wose mwagiranaga.

5. Ntabwo azongera kukwishimira na gato.

Ibi ni bibi cyane ku muhungu mu mubano kuko umukobwa udashobora kukwishimira na gato ni ikimenyetso ko yakwanze muri we aha kuri uru rwego we aba yishakira kuba yakwisangira abandi, nuramuka rero ubonye bimwe muri ibi bimenyetso uzamenye ko umukunzi wawe yakurambiwe, ko ari igihe cyo kureba uko wavugurura umubano wanyu.

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