Abasore n’abagabo benshi bemeza ko umukobwa cyangwa umugore ufite ikibuno kinini aryoshya imibonano mpuzabitsina, n’ubwo bigoye kubihamya kuko umuntu aryoherwa n’iki gikorwa bitewe n’uwo bagikoranye cyangwa uburyo cyakozwemo gusa ibi ni bimwe mubyo umugore ufite ikibuno kinini aba afite bituma aryoshya imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Ese koko ikibuno kinini gifasha abagabo kuryoherwa mu gihe cyo gutera akabariko nkuko bamwe babivuga

Umushakashatsi mubyerekeya ubuzima bw’imyororokere Simon Shield,asobanura uruhare ikibuno kigira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.

Agaragaza ko umugore cyangwa umukobwa afite ikibuno kinini bituma aba uw’igikundiro,maze benshi bamubona bikifuza gukorana nawe imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Avuga kandi ko mu gihe umugabo yifuje umugore nk’uyu maze akagira amahirwe yo kumugeraho aryoherwa cyane n’iyo mibonano, kuko aba ayibonye yarayifuje.

Mu gihugu kandi cya FIRIPINE Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe ku bagore 10.000 bafite ikibuno kinini bwagaragaje ko 67% baba bafite ububobere buhagije mu mu gitsina ndetse akanagira amavangingo.

Ibi ngo bituruka ku kuba baba bafite imisemburo myinshi Testisterone na Progesterone bityo imibonano bityo bakagira amavangingo n’ububobere bwinshi mu gitsina ari nabyo bigira uruhare runini mu kuryoherwa n’imibonanompuzabitsina ikagenda neza.

Urubuga women’s Life rugaragaza ko ikibuno kinini gifasha umugabo kwishimira imibonano mu gihe umugore yagiye hejuru mu gutera akabariro.

Ngo iki kibuno cyitikura ku bibero by’umugabo igihe umugire yisimbiza amunyongera maze bigatuma umugabo arushaho kugira ubushake.

Uru rubuga kandi ruvuga ko umugore ufite ikibuno kinini kimufasha gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kenshi ku munsi cyangwa mu cyumweru kurusha uko yaba afite ikibuno gitoya.

Ibi bikaba byamufasha kwakira abagabo benshi batera akabariro ku munsi cyangwa akaba yabasha kwakira umugabo we igihe cyose akeneye gutera akabariro.

Ufite ikibuno kinini akenshi ngo aba afite igitsina gito bityo nti bibe byasaba umugabo utera akabariro kuba afite igitsina kirekire cyangwa kibyibushye kugira ngo amuhaze.

Ibi nabyo bikaba bifasha umugabo kuryoshya imibonano kuko aba yumva ko igitsina cye cyaba gito cyangwa kinini kiba gihagije muri icyo gikorwa.

Mu gihe umugore afite igitsina kinini,umugabo yumva igitsina cye cyabaye nk’icy’umwana bityo nti yiyumvishe ko imibonano yaryoshye.

Aha usanga umugabo yiyumvisha ko arimo kumutobatoba cyangwa umugore akumva wagira ngo umugabo arimo gukoresha intoki.

N’ubwo atari kuri buri wese ufite ikibuno kinini uba ufite ibi byose ariko ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko abenshi baba babifite cyangwa baburamo bike.

Birashoboka ko n’udafite ikibuno kinini yagira ibi byose kuko imibiri y’abantu iteye ku buryo butandukanye ndetse imibonano umuntu akaba ayishimira bitewe n’uburyo yakozwe cyangwa uko afata uwo bayikoranye.

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